Chivalry off the Field

We make much of chivalry on the fighting field. If a fighter looses an arm or leg in battle, a chivalrous opponent will voluntarily give him- or herself a similar handicap. It’s a courteous, honorable, and (let’s be honest) expected act. But what about off the field? Isn’t chivalry just as important in other aspects of our SCA life? Below are three easy ways to set a chivalrous example for our next generation of SCAdians:

Be a Helper
It’s not necessary to volunteer for every disagreeable task or to run yourself ragged at an event. Simply open your eyes and ears to opportunities. Perhaps you see a young lord struggling to set up his tent. Perhaps you see a lady committing one of my personal failings – trying to carry too many things at once. Perhaps the kitchen crew could use a hand chopping vegetables or washing a few dishes. Do not fear becoming “stuck in the kitchen,” or anywhere else. Complete the task for which you volunteered, then feel free to ramble on.

Go to Court
Yes, it’s hot/cold outside and you’d really rather take a nap/shower before feast. I’ve been guilty of this myself. Depending upon the particular Crown and event, Court can be a torturous test of endurance. Go anyway. If you must, then take a small, quiet project to distract your mind from your seat – embroidery is great for this – but go. Attendance at Court not only shows respect to the Crown, but also to recipients of awards. Besides, it can be great fun to count the number of names the Court Herald mispronounces in the course of 30-45 minutes.

Pay Heed the Herald
Site Heralds are not shouting for the pleasure of hearing their own voices. When you hear, “Oyez,” pause your conversation, listen to the announcement, resume your conversation. ‘Nuff said.

Chivalry is an integral part of our SCA life and is important both on and off the fighting field. Our youth and our newcomers learn best from the example we set. Let’s be sure to set a good one!